Why Kate is exploring the ‘Reggio Emilia approach’ to parenting – and how you can use it at home

May 13, 2026 - 17:12

The Princess of Wales has reportedly been exploring the Reggio Emilia approach to parenting, a child-led educational philosophy that originated in Italy after World War II. While the method is often used in preschools, its principles are increasingly being adapted for the home. Experts suggest that many parents may already be using its core ideas without realizing it.

At its heart, the Reggio Emilia approach treats children as capable, curious individuals who drive their own learning. Instead of giving direct instructions, parents act as guides or co-learners. The environment itself is considered a "third teacher," meaning the home should be organized to encourage exploration. This includes using open shelving with accessible materials like natural objects, art supplies, and simple tools rather than plastic, battery-operated toys.

Another key principle is documentation. Parents are encouraged to observe what their child is drawn to and then create opportunities for deeper play. For example, if a child is fascinated by shadows, a parent might provide a flashlight and paper to trace them. The focus is on the process, not the final product. There is no pressure to produce a perfect drawing or complete a worksheet.

Critics note that the method can be time-consuming and requires a shift in mindset for parents used to structured schedules. However, advocates argue it reduces power struggles because the child feels heard. To start, experts recommend simply slowing down. Let your child lead a walk, ask open-ended questions like "What do you notice?" and resist the urge to correct their play. The goal is not to buy special furniture but to foster a sense of wonder and respect for the child's own pace.